I am so much irritated with what had happened to me. Now, its May. Thank God. I am still alive.Health and strong.Yeah. It's hard to forget the past.But, trust me! Time heals.You can change the feeling. Sooner or later, you can breath freely. So, this is what you should do after you broke up with your ex. Just like what i have done.
First of all : COME TO GOD
Always back to basic, pray hard.Talk to God. Remember,God has another grand plan for you.Trust me.God is so good. Talk to him.No money, no network busy, no line, no queque..All you have to do is, kneel and pray.
GET BUSY
Do stuff. Any stuff. Be active. When you have things to do, you clear your mind and just don’t have the time to think about
your ex. Be busy, go to church, get a hobby, work on your career, and catch up with
old friends. Blessed me, i have so many friends :) REMEMBER : Being alone will kill you slowly.
WORK OUT
Hit the gym sometimes. Hihi and Go jogging! Yeahh. I think i 'd been hits more then 1000 hockey ball since January. Do some physical exercise. This will
toughen up your body, mind, and soul so you’ll be less emotional and
more productive. I really love fitness.Advantage for me. The more you do sport, the more you gain your strength and get your confidence back.
ACCEPT YOUR PAIN
Do not cut him out of your life completely. He might be your ex
boyfriend now, but not so long ago you used to love each other – don’t
be angry at him or yourself. Forgiving him, and yourself, is the first
step to peace of mind after a break up. Accept that it’s over and that
life goes on. You need to be strong and able to control your pain – how?
Accept it. Acceptance is the first step. Don’t try to resist it. I’m
not saying you should spend time with your ex, but don’t cut him out of
your life either – it’s possible to stay friends with your ex, whatever
you believe right now. Give each other a chance to continue
communication, that’s what cool, emotionally healthy, open-minded people
do. YESS, I ALWAYS FORGIVE HIM and YESS, WE ARE BESTIE :)
DON'T LOOK FOR A NEW GUY
You just broke up with your boyfriend and you’re trying to get over
him – finding a new boyfriend after just a weak is dumb and unrealistic.
Give yourself some time, and be fair with your ex. You would feel
terrible if he had a new girlfriend out of a sudden too. Have some
respect for each other. Take it slow and let your heart heal. It also
wouldn’t be fair towards that new guy; you’d just use him as a cheap
substitute of your ex so you don’t feel like crap. That’s selfish.
Enjoy being single a bit, rethink your life, get to know yourself
better. Stay strong and carry on. You don’t need anyone to be happy but
yourself. Yeaahhh, i am not that desperate one :)
LOVE YOURSELF
Life works in strange ways. Sometimes, you just don’t “click” with a
guy completely. Why be in a relationship with someone who isn’t ideal
for you. There’s someone for everyone, and you will find true love,
sooner or later. Just open up yourself, Mr. Right could be just around
the corner. Anything is possible.
Don’t put pressure on yourself. The first step to getting over your
ex is acceptance. The second step is to keep walking. You have to move
on in life and have a positive attitude. Love yourself and you will be
loveable to the world around you.
Never forget… after the rain, the sun always comes out. It may be
raining now, so take out your umbrella, keep walking, and sooner than
you know, the sun will shine brighter, and will bring a smile on your
face.
BE POSITIVE
If you didn’t break up, you would never meet that next guy that will
come along. Yes – he will come along – but only if you think positively.
Open up yourself to new opportunities by looking at things from the
right angle. Your heart is broken because you let it be broken. You
can’t get over your ex – not because of him, but because of yourself –
you do not let yourself get over him. Allow yourself to move on. It’s easier than you think
